Monday, 28 April 2014 0 comments

INSPIRATION

Saturday, 26 April 2014 0 comments

Nigerian Religious Junk! (Part 1)




“Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves.  You will recognize them by their fruits... So, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit…Thus you will recognize them by their fruits” (Matthew 7:15-20).

This post was written originally (here) I loved the truth in it and decided to repost It here. Please read and understand.

I begin this blog by apologising to all my Nigerian brothers and sisters for its title. At first sight it is rather offensive, but I hope that as you read on you will see why I elected to still use it as a title. As nations or tribes or social groupings we take on a certain characteristic that is not true about each person in the group but which we come to be identified with. Hence, Paul could write, “One of the Cretans, a prophet of their own, said, ‘Cretans are always liars, evil beasts, lazy gluttons.’ This testimony is true. Therefore rebuke them sharply, that they may be sound in the faith” (Titus 1:12-13). In the same way, we tend to (rightly or wrongly) identify Americans with arrogance, Kenyans with marathon running prowess, West Africans with fraudulent activities, Afrikaners with racism, etc.

I have just returned from a consultative meeting in South Africa where the first day was spent surveying the spiritual state of the countries in the southern African sub-region. Central to all this was the state of evangelicalism in all these countries. Nation after nation reported on the arrival of “Nigerian religious junk” that was changing the landscape of what there once was of evangelicalism. One or two of the countries were blessed exceptions. Evidently, this junk originated from mega-churches in the USA and then found ready soil in West Africa, and especially in Nigeria. Having given it an African flavour, it is now being exported across Africa at a phenomenal rate. (Continue reading)
Tuesday, 22 April 2014 0 comments

This is The Definition of Happiness!



This I believe depicts what true happiness is. JOY derived not from having much But in spite of having little. Joy derived not from comfort But in spite of deep discomfort.  Situationless Joy!

Saturday, 19 April 2014 0 comments

When The Context is Removed.........


When the context of a thing is removed, it becomes a pretext. A pretext meaning a reason given in justification of a course of action that is not the real reason (google it). This definition will help in understanding where i'm coming from and where i'm going to.

Modern Christianity especially in Pentecostalism here in Nigeria and also in the world at large, is characterized by preachers and teachers quoting the bible out of context; out of the original meaning and intent the writer had in mind and  this is done in order to justify selfish points by whoever is misquoting that scripture at that time or probably just a sheer misunderstanding of the Bible. This issue of misquoting the Bible is a very grave thing as heresies and blasphemies have been proclaimed intentionally and unintentionally because of misunderstanding or sheer neglect. 

A good example of something i've heard is this; Someone said masturbation is not a sin and was asked why? and he said the Bible said so. hmmmm... He was asked where in the Bible was it said and he said "The bible said whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all thy might..."  So, he implies that if your hand should find that place, c'mon give it all you got...  LOOL!!! :) That's the sickest thing i've ever heard. It is funny to hear such but this stems up from the ideas that preachers have infused in us by heavily nailing Jesus back to cross via the scriptural backing they give to certain statements.. I'm very sure you have heard a lot of em if you are like me.

The solution: We all should try as much as possible to understand the scenario, the Who, When, What and To Whom of a particular scripture. Do not rely on "My pastor said  this, my Pastor said that" people have eaten grass due to such. A lot of Emphasis has been put on reading the Bible, which is fine but more should be put on reading the Bible within its context. 
Sunday, 30 March 2014 0 comments

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!


'M' is for the millions she's given me,
'O' means that she's only ours,
'T' is for the tears she shed to save me,
'H' is for her heart of purest gold,
'E' is for her eyes, with love-light shining,
'R' means right, and right she will always be,
Put them all together they spell 'MOTHER'
A word that means the world to me.

To the best mother in the world:
Sending me to school every morning
Cleaning up the house for us
Shopping, cooking, helping
Planning my family’s busy schedule.

In my eyes, she’s nothing less than a Superwoman
The kind, gentle lady whose patient nurture
Guided from birth to my first few steps,
To those “troubling” teenage years,
Who will continue to do so forever.
This Superwoman will never cease to stop loving me
And although I may not show it

Wednesday, 19 March 2014 0 comments

LIFE IS SHORT


Is there something you want to tell someone, Do it now.
Is there something you want to give someone, Do it now.
Is there someone you want to appreciate,Do it now.

Life is Short..

(PS:Today Happens to be my Birthday)

Tuesday, 18 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True(Final Part).... #100Things


FINALLY!
It's the last of it all.
100 Things I Know to be True!
Here Goes;

#91.  God does not want us to build magnificent places of worship while our brothers and sisters are homeless

#92.  10 children can not play together for 10 years, talk more of 20.

#93.  I've always wanted to study in Canada

#94.  When God writes your love story, if you wait, It'd be more than you ever dreamed of.

#95.  P=IV=I2R=V2/R

#96.  Makeup does not really make people look beautiful. It's like putting mud water in a flashy wine bottle

#97.  If you don't love someone, don't say you do.

#98.  Never make promises when happy or decisions when angry.

#99.  Tomorrow is the BIRTHDAY of the bestest senior brother in the world!! and prime author of this blog. So don't forget to send in your wishes, famz small, (ps; cake dey) #turnup in his room!.. Dm @iweanyawrites for more details

#100. I know that today would make a best moment in the last 18 (yh! 18) years of my life and I can't thank God enough for that!!! #Turnup! (Today's my Birthday!)
Friday, 14 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True(Part 9).... #100Things


So the list continues....
100 Things I Know To Be True....Enjoy!
I know that;



#81.  I am overly excited about my 18th birthday on the 18th of march! *blushes*

#82.  Our parents will always be the best thing that has happened to us.

#83.  St. Veronica did wipe the face of Jesus on the way to Calvary.

#84.  Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

#85.  You should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you’ll see them.

#86.  God is omniscient

#87.  No matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while, and you must forgive them for that.

#88.  Social networks nowadays do more harm than good.

#89.  It's best to be nice

#90.  I am Catholic and proud!


Don't forget to write what you know to be true in the comment box or tweet using #100Things
(@iweanyawrites or @C_ronn ) and your truth would definitely help complete my list!
Wednesday, 12 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True(Part 8).... #100Things


And the list continues...

100 Things I know to be True....
I know that;
#71.  Everyday is yet another chance to change the direction of your life and the relationships in it.


#72.  There is much I don’t know or understand and probably never will. And that’s okay.


#73.  A real apology is one that has no ‘buts’.


#74.  It’s all about perspective - change the way you look at things & you’ll see things you’ve never seen before.-(like a husband in an annoying coursemate!)


#75.  My hair is black-brown-red-ginger-golden, my tooth is broken and I love to be described as stick-thin.


#76.  Sometimes, love truly isn’t enough – and yet, love is all we really have.


#77.  I know that there are 24 hours in a day, 7 days in a week and 12 months in a year. But it never seems to be enough time to figure out who you are.


#78.  
One Drink is Never Just One Drink.


#79.  
People care about one another a lot more than they let on. 


#80.  In the end, it’s not about the awards you got, the money you made, the things you bought. It’s about the EXPERIENCES you had. The lives you touched. The smiles you shared. How you made someone feel. Whether you followed your heart and dreams. Live authentically.













Tuesday, 11 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True(Part 7).... #100Things


So the list continues..

Here goes,
100 Things I know to be true..

#61.  The sooner you do something, the more of your life you get to spend with that thing done

#62.  Love is damned scary and it’s okay to proceed with caution

#63.  If you smile at someone, they smile back at you. Smiles bring the world together

#64.  All the details of famous celebrities, actors, singers etc. will never help me in the future (Unless I'm on a quiz show where I win a ton of money)

#65.  Life is going to punch you in the face, punch it in the face back!

#66.  The world is filled with many heartbreaking moments, but if you only concentrate on those, then the dark cloud will always be above your head.

#67.  Just because it’s a socially accepted norm, doesn’t make it the right choice for you.

#68.  Life is not fair. It may never be fair.

#69.  There's no end to learning.

#70.  I've got big problems , but I've got a BIGGER GOD.!

Don't forget to contribute in the comment box below or #100Things *winks*




Monday, 10 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True(Part 6).... #100Things


And the list continues...

Here goes..

100 Things I know to be true..

#51.  . The bad news is that time flies, the good news is that you're the pilot. @Natha_iyka

#52.   Do not compare your weaknesses to other people's strength. @Natha_iyka

#53.   I might have hurt your feelings but if you don't tell me I'll never know. @Natha_iyka

#54.  I was created for a purpose.

#55.  The world has not seen what great art can do.

#56.  We need more poetry and less prose, more art and less advertising.

#57.  You can make money without doing evil.... Google

#58.  I can repurpose everything I feel, experience and observe into my writing – and it’s cathartic.

#59.  Put on your own oxygen mask first.

#60.  Love anyway, Even when you don’t want to; especially when you don’t want to; even when it feels impossible.

Don't forget to send in yours too!  #100 Things @C_ronn   @iweanyawrites
Enjoy!
Saturday, 8 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True(Part 5).... #100Things


Here's numbers 41 to 50.... 100 Things I know to be true...
Thanks to a close friend of mine ;)...
Here goes..

#41.   worry is the misuse of imagination... @Natha_iyka

#42.   maths doesn't suck but I still prefer languages...@Natha_iyka

#43.   the world has enough celebrities it could use a few more saints...@Natha_iyka

#44.   when the going gets tough the tough gets going..@Natha_iyka

#45.   puppies are the cutest!...@Natha_iyka

#46.   I totally agree with -"the brain is a miracle"...@Natha_iyka

#47.   prayer fixes everything...@Natha_iyka

#48.   if u didn't watch Tom and Jerry or Lion King as a child then you didn't even have a childhood...@Natha_iyka

#49.   I love inspirational books...@Natha_iyka

#50.   I would do ANYTHING for my mother!...@Natha_iyka

Don't forget to send in yours too!  #100 Things @C_ronn   @iweanyawrites
Enjoy!
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Watch MODERN ROOMATES 2!!



You must have seen modern roommates 1 but modern roommates 2 takes you to a world of hilarious possibilties as a comedian and a rapper engage in a rap battle. Modern roommates2 enjoy! and please don't laugh :)
Friday, 7 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I Know to be True (Part 4)..... #100Things


*Drum roll*....
And the list continues...

100 Things I know to be True....

I know that;

#31.You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it, and when you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.

#32. Sunrise is a gift.

#33. The 1st to 3rd law of thermodynamics is true.

#34.  There are certain things in life that will always make me upset: Feeling used. Being lied to. Being blown off. Being interrupted. Broken promises. Watching my friends get hurt. 

#35.  Family and friendship are without question most important things in life and should be cherished deeply. I know there are a handful of people in this world who would take a bullet for me and vise versa. I know that there will always be people who love and support me.

#36.  We are never given more than we can handle.

#37.  There's always three sides to every story, the first person's, the second, and the truth.

#38.  The tongue has no bones, but it's strong enough to break a heart.


#39.  Holding a grudge is letting someone live rent-free in your head.


#40.  Grades don't measure intelligence and age doesn't define maturity
Thursday, 6 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True (Part 3)... #100Things


Here Goes...
100 Things I know to be true...

I know that;


#21.  Even the last bit can be shared.

#22.  I try my very best to keep my promises and I admire those who do.

#23.  Math is easy and Languages suck!

#24.  Love is a choice, and must be chosen each day by both individuals, especially on the days that you don’t feel like loving or being loved.

#25.  Every day, when I feel like pulling away, there's always someone to remind me to reach out instead.

#26.  Toothaches are among the most painful feelings in the world.

#27.  Albert Einstein once said," All of science is nothing more than the refinement of everyday thinking.”


#28.  Our society is moving faster than our ability to adapt to its changes.


#29.  One day, A woman would rule Nigeria.


#30.  Happy girls are the prettiest - @datKDgirl #100Things




Wednesday, 5 March 2014 0 comments

What Ofili Said about The Centenary Celebration @Ofilispeaks


I've been off Nigerian News for a while because i'm totally tired of the phenomenon called "Nigeria". I think we're jokers and our leaders are the chief jokers. We recently just celebrated 100 years which was quite controversial especially with the names of awardees. Below is what a mentor of mine wrote about the celebration in exactly the same way he wrote it.
"This is not a joke…The Nigerian Presidential Committee recognizes Ibrahim Badmusi Babangida and Sani Abacha as…drum roll…
“Outstanding promoters of unity, patriotism and national development” for their centenary awards.
What the flying f***!!!
Like really are we living in a country of forgetful clowns. They are not just considered “Ordinary promoters” they are “OUTSTANDING promoters.”
Our government is clueless…I am sorry. And Ken Saro-wiwa’s name is not even listed there! F*** the entire Presidential Committee on the centenary. You guys are idiots for insulting Nigerians with that list."
I agree with him. 
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100 Things I know to be True (Part 2)... #100Things


So the list continues....
100 Things I Know To Be True....
Enjoy!

I know that;

#11.  Heaven is real, as well as hell.

#12.  Chimamanda Adichie was right when she said “A man who would be intimidated by me is exactly the kind of man I would have no interest in”

#13.  Relationships are 100:100 partnership, Not 50:50.

#14.  Guys cry.

#15.  Nigeria is a beautiful nation.

#16.  Looks aren’t everything, if you do not believe, ask Cameron Russell.

#17.  Harry Potter is a literature masterpiece of all time.

#18.  Poetry is definitely romantic.

#19.  Sometimes, all one needs, is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.


#20.  The best way to spell love is G-I-V-E.

Don't forget to write what you know to be true in the comment box or tweet using #100Things
(@iweanyawrites or @C_ronn ) and your truth would definitely help complete my list!

Tuesday, 4 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be true (Part 1).... #100Things



Here's a list I've since planned on putting together 14 days from now, a year ago. 100 is quite a number, as well as the amount of truth in this world, and with the help of you, i hope to complete it in time. Here's how it goes, you could write what you know to be true in the comment box or tweet using #100Things (@iweanyawrites or @C_ronn ) and your truth would definitely help complete my list ;) It could be about anything, really, anything!, ranging from your favourite food to your best moments to science to gymnasts to poetry to shoe sizes! anything at all!!!. Feel free to share your opinions and idiosyncrasies as well as enjoy reading mine.

So Here's 100 Things I Know To Be True (Part 1).....

I Know that

#1.  God's love is the only kind that never hurts.

#2.  Family is the best form of relationship ever!

#3.  Sarah Kay definitely has super powers when it comes to words.

#4.  Holding hands are sometimes much more cuter than hugs and kisses.

#5.  I love people who listen to their loved ones.

#6.  People change, even it takes them 10 years or a broken leg.

#7.  Some hide a lot from speaking the truth out loud because at times there's no one to listen.

#8.  No-one is capable of true love without knowing the Author of true love.

#9.  A rape victim is never at fault.

#10.  Everyone, boy or girl, is BEAUTIFUL!



Thursday, 6 February 2014 0 comments

INSPIRATION

Saturday, 1 February 2014 0 comments

Boys Who Write...


This is a spoken word poetry I've been dying to post since. Inspired by a friend of mine and of course, numerous spoken word poetry i recently listened to, So here's to the under-appreciated or over-loved sweet and romantic boys who write to their loved ones!

Boys who Write
It was a usual conversation,
A dude had walked past,
and the usual 'ooooh!'s followed him behind,
quiet, I sat, pondering why
lost in my thoughts, I heard
'what type of guy do you prefer?'
frightened, eyes moved east and west almost instantly,
Did that really need an answer?
I shrunk on my seat,
the air must have left the room, I thought,
but the windows were wide ajar!,
with the courage of a 17-year old, I found my voice saying,
'' I like boys with packs and chiseled hands,
A twinkling in their eyes,
and a Cross-of-Jesus on their necks,
large hands and white teeth,
and all those teeny little bits
But mostly,
I prefer a Boy who Writes!"  (Continue Reading)
Thursday, 30 January 2014 0 comments

REMEMBERING STYL PLUS



I woke up this morning with "Run Away" playing in my mind, I even wonder why. Then i just remembered the days of STYL PLUS when they were a music brand to be reckoned with, their vocals was just on point. They were good. Though they aren't together again today, below are my best STYL PLUS tracks ever....


Tuesday, 28 January 2014 0 comments

INSPIRATION


Friday, 24 January 2014 0 comments

15 Points To Consider...



1. Never compare your weaknesses to other people's strengths.

2. Own your life, or someone will own it for you.

3.  We cannot change the cards we are dealt,just how we play the hand.

4. Climb mountains not so the world can see you but so you can see the world.

5. If you accept your limitation, you go beyond them.

6. Comfort is the enemy of achievement. (Continue Reading)

Thursday, 23 January 2014 0 comments

The Type....


Once again, I've gotten the Spoken Word fever from Sarah Kay. Here's a poem, though written by me, inspired by Sarah Kay's The Type. Enjoy!

If you want to grow up the type of man, women want to look at....
You can let them look at you,
your curves and edges,
your packs and abs...
But don't mistake eyes for affection,
for eyes see the ordinary,
but affection sees beyond the ordinary,
they see pain,
they see tears,
they see joy, 
they see love...

If you want to grow up the type of man, women want to touch....
You can let them touch you,
like a picture, you could sit still
like a stuffed animal, you could give warmth
like a lover, you could be good company
but don't mistake touches for care...
for to them, you might only be a picture, a stuffed animal or a lover

If you want to grow up the type of man, women want to hold....
You can let them hold you,
so tight they do not want to leave,
with their soft hands pressing against your tough skin,
making them feel that sometimes,
holding hands are better than hugs and kisses,
that sometimes all one needs to do to show love,
is to hold a hand

If you want to grow up the type of man, women want to be with...
You can let them be with you,
but never forget, they want to be with a man
not a player,
not a dreamer,
but a doer
Show them who a man really is,
beyond curves and edges, packs and abs
beyond tough skin, lies a good heart
and patience
and care
and concern

If you want to grow up the type of man, a woman wants to love
Don't just let her love you,
Show her true love,
go to lengths,
send her notes, that way she knows you are thinking of her
rent the flower shop, that way she never gets lonely,
look at her,
touch her,
hold her,
be with her,
show her that all she always needed,
was love, true, pure, blessed
like a gardenia,
obscure of what's around,
like a camera view finder,
looking for her,
to stand in its middle,
like its lens,
focusing on her,
with all your might,
living for her,
because she's your tomorrow,
Let her know, without doubt....
You're the Type!!
Monday, 20 January 2014 0 comments

GAYS SHOULDNT BE JAILED!


The decision of the Federal Republic of Nigeria to criminalize same-sex relationships and gay rights groups  with penalties of up to 14 years in prison is actually a case of misplaced priorities and lack of direction. 
Personally I believe that ones sexual orientation is not the business of the Government because i dont see how that affects the Government in any way. Being gay is wrong and thats an act i dont only find repulsive but also very abnormal but should that deserve a 14 year sentence??

Its just like jailing someone for masturbating or sleeping with another man's wife with her consent. Afterall this are all wrong acts so whats the special brouhaha about gayism??
If a former Governor could be granted state pardon after stealing Billions of tax payers money you can now see how we have serious priority problems.

There are more serious issues to deal with in this nation and a lot of sectors are upside down so i really dont see why gays being jailed solves any problem! 

Friday, 17 January 2014 0 comments

Choose a Job You Love.. You'll Never Have to Work A Day In Your Life Again..


Sometimes I try to imagine how people spend about 23 years of their lives in school and then spend the next 37 years working for somebody and making the person richer... Its appalling.. The guy speaking above may not be Robert Kiyosaki but he has a deep message for we the young ones!
Wednesday, 15 January 2014 0 comments

INSPIRATION


God said he'll bless the work of your hands not the sleep of your eyes(Anointed Sleep..).. Go out there and happen!!

Sunday, 12 January 2014 0 comments

When Love Arrives...

My obsession for Spoken Word seems to spark some sort of inspiration in me. This particular poem was inspired by Sarah Kay ( My Favourite Spoken Word Poet) and Phil Kaye's very own "When Love Arrives". Watch them perform it live here
This poem, for some reason, strikes me hard, some parts, fiction, some parts, facts some parts, well, mere fantasy. Hope you enjoy!!

In primary school, love was our colouring books, pens and pencils. We'd look at each of them each day and share with them our imaginations.

Come junior high school, love was that drop-dead gorgeous guy in our favourite sitcom, who often entered the class in slo-motion and drove a Porsche to a high school

In senior high school, love was the cutest boy with curly hair and mad dance skills in our 'brother' school who had nose-diving grades that we didn't care about.

Strangely, this love felt far...
I searched my hostels,( and well in an all girls' school ), love wasn't there.
I often hustled to usher every social event that included our 'brother' schools, so that I could flash a smile at some dude whose stare lasted for more than 7 seconds. (frankly, 3 seconds.) (Continue Reading.....)
Sunday, 5 January 2014 0 comments

Don't Kill Yourself Over One Girl!

Many of you may have heard this particular tragic story of mine, but it has taught me a very intelligent lesson... Some people are laughing already, Kelechi, Adeleke I see you. To the Story; I really liked a particular girl this was about a year ago and this girl was everything I ever wanted in a female specie. She was cute, petite, walked with grace, laughed easily and was sooo charming. We got talking and I used my prince charming abilities to get closer to her. We were friends for about three months but I wanted more, you know what I mean, So i asked her out on the third month and you know what she said?? she said "Victor, i really like you but you know, not now". 
Well, this continued for 10 Months till i finally decided to damn the whole thing and through out this period I was always breaking my head for this girl. I made some huge sacrifices!!... 

Then, I realized the secret formula; An average man has more to offer a lady than she has to offer him(arguable tho), He offers protection, provision, companionship and so much more.... So, as a man if a woman doesn't appreciate what you carry, carry what you carry to another that will appreciate it. Don't kill yourself over one girl!!!
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INSPIRATION; A True Role Model.


Tuesday, 24 December 2013 0 comments

Warning!!!! New Artiste On The Loose! @BuwaLegend


Omabuwa dede (born October 18 ,1994) who performs under the name Buwa is a Nigerian born artist, songwriter. At a young age Buwa was introduced to the older R&B his mother listened to, and his father's musical tastes, including funk, hip hop, jazz, and classic rock. At age 5 buwa joined the choir in church. However, at 13 he began pursuing a career in music. At 14, he was writing songs with his friend moses ibrahim in High school. He is a fast rising upcoming artist in the Nigerian industry with his debut single "underconstruction". He describes his kind of sound as energetic and fast tempo with a soulful touch popularly called the "buwa effect" by some of his fans. Buwa identifies himself as part of the new wave of R&B artists that include Praiz, Bez. His vocals are influenced by his role model whitney houston with the power in his voice.

Connect with him on Twitter: @BuwaLegend
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NEW SONG: [ZION'S DAUGHTER] by @Aybeeomari


This Song written and produced by Omari is for every Woman who has been a victim of abuse. For every bad girl that wants to be good so bad. Listen to the message and you'll definitely be blessed. He's not your average rapper!!

Thursday, 19 December 2013 0 comments

PHYSICAL INTIMACY - What A Friend Told Me..


When you get into a relationship, physical intimacy is a very key part of the relationship but "how far is too far?", what degree of physical intimacy is needed to keep the relationship at a healthy level?. If the the core of the relationship is built on just physical "stuff" alone, there's a great tendency that the relationship will end faster than you can say Iweanya Victor :)...

In my quest to understand how physical intimacy should be handled i got a very key advice from a friend and he goes thus:

Identify her primary love language and feed her with it if you want to keep her. Else you will loose her. #period#. The only thing left to know will be "what you will loose her to" she may either cheat on you or would frustrate the relationship for you to end it so that she can be free, or she will end it personally to free herself. In any case if you starve her love tank, someone else will fuel it and she will port. It will get really sour if she ports while you are still in love with her. Now physical intimacy in real world scenarios can be dealt with in two ways,... you can hold, cuddle,.. Kiss if you want in the appropriate environment. But stay away from "room" or isolated places else it will go beyond kiss... #fact# 

From another view, if her body craves for it... I mean... If she gets horny easily,.. There is little or nothing you can do about it. you can only pray and believe God will help her or end the relationship because she won't be able to say no,.. If a 'bad guy' that wants her body just for 5mins comes around. She will give him the go ahead, even if she loves you. These are not hypothetical illustrations..  You will either break your norms or be left with no choice but to end the relationship.  Girls who love physical touch are not so reinforced when it comes to strong will.. And ability to say No. Note that no two girls are the same,.. While one prefers physical intimacy, another girl will prefer to bond with her Boyfriend as a best friend,. With only a little bit of physical ish,...

If you find yourself with a girl that loves physical touch, then these are the options;
Bend your norms and keep her while she still fancies you.. Or bend your norms and keep her faithful.
Break the relationship if the extent she wants it doesn't agree with you, cos she would be faced with strong temptations if you don't respond. Pray together and avoid isolated places when together.

Talk freely about these topics,..don't make them 'ghost' topics,... Tell her how you get 'hard' and all and how uncomfortable it is especially cos you want her for 'keeps' not for pleasure,.. 
Every relationship needs a bit of romance... Especially in this 21st cent.  Spice things up don't go "french" kiss ever! In isolation cos if you do. It WILL go to the other level. The 'romantic kiss' should be fine I guess,... 

A 'good' girl in a relationship can cheat on her boyfriend cos of conji , it happens... 

This was written from a perspective that the boy in the relationship is very Moral, not a Bad guy and all....

What do you think?

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Wednesday, 18 December 2013 0 comments

NEW SONG: [THE TAKEOVER] by 4runner feat. Provabs and Samnem


ABOUT THE SONG


The artiste, 4runner has released a number of songs starting from grateful which he first released and which introduced the audience to his style of rapping and to 4runner as an artiste, he also released  “ no one greater” which featured award winning singer, Henrisoul. He didn’t stop there he also released a hip hop song titled infiltration.
Without relenting, he releases another one titled “the take over”. The take over is a remix of the original song which featured rappers like Samjamz, Gameman and Tb 1. This 4runner’s version features award winning rapper, Provabs who is under the “one management” . Provabs was featured on T.I.V’s song Komole alongside Vector. He has released songs like “I surrender” feat. Evel and recently released a song with M.I titled “Heaven knows”. Also this new version features Samnem Ijaya who is also known as the Ijaya of hip hop. Samnem is one rapper that brands his rap style with the use of Yoruba language. He has released songs like ‘mo ranti” and “beeni’.
The Take over emphasizes that these faith based emcees are here to stay and dominate your radios and playlists with good music. The take over is strictly a hip hop song with a “naija” feel to it. So get ready to Knod forward and backward as you listen. Enjoy.


ABOUT THE ARTISTE


4runner whose real name is Nwaka Miraculous was born in the year 1992, in Lagos state. He was Born to a father from delta state who is a pastor and a mother from Adamawa state. He schooled in a number of primary schools due to his father’s pastoral status which made his family get transferred periodically. He had his secondary school education in Faith Academy and is currently studying at Covenant University.
4runner started enjoying music at the age of 10 listening to rappers like Eminem, 50 cent, Bow wow. He later got introduced to T-bone’s music at the age of 12 and also got introduced to Lecrae’s music and at the age of fourteen he started composing his own rap songs. While in secondary school,  he belonged to a rap group called G-hood which later merged with another rap group to become “saints”. On his graduation day he released a demo CD titled ‘stand up’ which contained 5 songs.   While in university he released grateful, no one greater feat. Henrisoul and infiltration which are all songs from his coming EP titled “the infiltration EP”. He was also featured on the forgiven mixtape by Ojay on a song titled Dansakire alongside Abrizzle.
4runner defines his music based on his faith. He claims he had a hypocritical past and it was only knowing Jesus that him actually attain a level of sincerity and he says as a result Jesus is making him better everyday. 4runner says he desires quality in his music and strives for this by working with talented producers and experimenting in music by playing with variety. He says for his style of rap he calls it African Hip hop, which is being established by African rappers like Sarkodie, M.I  and more. He believes God has called him to spread a message of love and has his motto as “light in darkness”. He aims at making music that illuminates the listeners.

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Tuesday, 17 December 2013 0 comments

REPUTATION

 
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