Showing posts with label FROM THE HEART. Show all posts
Showing posts with label FROM THE HEART. Show all posts
Thursday, 10 December 2015 0 comments

The Philosopher's Muse...

Who am I?
Where did I come from?
And where am I going?
These kind of existential questions belie the root of all philosophical thinking. The answers to each one however is not always simple and is unique to every individual who must arrive at his answer through deep reflection and profound thought.
William Thackeray, a noted literary and intellectual of his time wrote of the smoking pipe, “the pipe draws wisdom from the lips of the philosopher and shuts up the mouth of the foolish, it generates a style of conversation, contemplative, thoughtful, benevolent and unaffected.”
And Even Albert Einstein resonated the thought saying "I believe that pipe smoking contributes to a somewhat calm and objective judgment in all human affairs,"
What both were implying was the pipe man is the reflective and thinking man. There is no doubt in my mind that the general consensus would agree with this imagery and when we conjure up the
image of a smoking pipe, your mind is instantly flooded with images of a scholar in his 50’s brooding in his study, contemplating the complexities of existentialism, drawing on wisdom from his pipe, Sherlock Holmes, or grandfather.
The question as to whether this imagery is factual and if sucking on a smoking pipe implies the user to be a rugged man of idyllic epoch is unimportant. At least not to Morountodun Obaigbo, the new age African Contemporary creative aesthetic product Designer who recently pre-launched her creative design platform. Her debut project explores the art of pipe making, using materials such as brass, gold, briar wood and acrylic.
She reveals that after studying some African aesthetic smoking pipes at the popular Jakande market, she began to consider the endless possibilities in making a smoking pipe and despite the prevalent anti-smoking sentiment, the smoking pipe making remains as a form of art.
Her smoking pipe collection is designed, looking at Contemporary African motif with stunning visual appeal. She believes there is a gentle charisma associated with a pipe smoker and there is little
difference in tobacco use and marijuana use as it relates to the smoking pipe. The smoking pipe is multi-functional and transcends beyond recreational drug use to a personal accessory which for both the connoisseur and the beginner might be a reflection of the eclectic tastes of the owner himself.
As an art enthusiast or lover of alternate or Afrocentrism, news of this exhibition should appeal to you. The launch of www.morountodunobaigbo.com is set for the beginning of 2016. It launches as an open exhibition, and welcomes other African Alternative Contemporary artists, poets, creative
designers, indie musicians, instrumentalists or photographers who would like to be part of the exhibition to contact uyi and someone else to be a part with other alternate artists and promises to be an evening of intellectual stimulation. You may subscribe to the newsletter or follow on social media to be part of the countdown. Follow on twitter...

Sunday, 6 September 2015 0 comments

Phenomenal, Phenomenal Woman.


I am not future Mrs. Something...
I am not made of curves and shapes and edges,
I am not a hash tag,
I am not a tweet or a like.
I am not measured by 1's and 0's.
I am a person.
I am a woman, phenomenal, phenomenal woman.

Skin and flesh,
Feelings and talent,
I am not made of metaphors,
I am not a muse,
I am not a temporary solution to your insatiable inadequacies,
I am not an object,
I am not a female dog.
I am a person.
I am a woman, phenomenal, phenomenal woman.

I am a doctor,
I am an engineer,
I am an athlete,
I am a lawyer,
I am not a property,
I am a person.
I am a woman, phenomenal, phenomenal woman.

I am full of wisdom,
I am capable of reason,
I am not an aphrodisiac,
I am not your damsel in distress.
I am not a prize to be attained.
I am not the light at the end of the tunnel.
I am the entire rail system.
I am not knives and forks,
I am a person.
I am a woman, phenomenal, phenomenal woman.


I am a caregiver,
I am your mother,
I am your sister,
I am your aunt,
I am your niece,
I am not an ornament,
I am not your wallpaper,
I am a person.
I am a woman, phenomenal, phenomenal woman.

I am not a waste of time,
I am not to stroke your ego,
I am not a door mat,
I am not a hobby,
I am not a pastime,
I am a person.
I am a woman,
Phenomenal, Phenomenal Woman.
            Inspired by Maya Angelou's Phenomenal Woman
Have a lovely Sunday y'all!!!!!
Tuesday, 18 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True(Final Part).... #100Things


FINALLY!
It's the last of it all.
100 Things I Know to be True!
Here Goes;

#91.  God does not want us to build magnificent places of worship while our brothers and sisters are homeless

#92.  10 children can not play together for 10 years, talk more of 20.

#93.  I've always wanted to study in Canada

#94.  When God writes your love story, if you wait, It'd be more than you ever dreamed of.

#95.  P=IV=I2R=V2/R

#96.  Makeup does not really make people look beautiful. It's like putting mud water in a flashy wine bottle

#97.  If you don't love someone, don't say you do.

#98.  Never make promises when happy or decisions when angry.

#99.  Tomorrow is the BIRTHDAY of the bestest senior brother in the world!! and prime author of this blog. So don't forget to send in your wishes, famz small, (ps; cake dey) #turnup in his room!.. Dm @iweanyawrites for more details

#100. I know that today would make a best moment in the last 18 (yh! 18) years of my life and I can't thank God enough for that!!! #Turnup! (Today's my Birthday!)
Friday, 14 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True(Part 9).... #100Things


So the list continues....
100 Things I Know To Be True....Enjoy!
I know that;



#81.  I am overly excited about my 18th birthday on the 18th of march! *blushes*

#82.  Our parents will always be the best thing that has happened to us.

#83.  St. Veronica did wipe the face of Jesus on the way to Calvary.

#84.  Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

#85.  You should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you’ll see them.

#86.  God is omniscient

#87.  No matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while, and you must forgive them for that.

#88.  Social networks nowadays do more harm than good.

#89.  It's best to be nice

#90.  I am Catholic and proud!


Don't forget to write what you know to be true in the comment box or tweet using #100Things
(@iweanyawrites or @C_ronn ) and your truth would definitely help complete my list!
Wednesday, 12 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True(Part 8).... #100Things


And the list continues...

100 Things I know to be True....
I know that;
#71.  Everyday is yet another chance to change the direction of your life and the relationships in it.


#72.  There is much I don’t know or understand and probably never will. And that’s okay.


#73.  A real apology is one that has no ‘buts’.


#74.  It’s all about perspective - change the way you look at things & you’ll see things you’ve never seen before.-(like a husband in an annoying coursemate!)


#75.  My hair is black-brown-red-ginger-golden, my tooth is broken and I love to be described as stick-thin.


#76.  Sometimes, love truly isn’t enough – and yet, love is all we really have.


#77.  I know that there are 24 hours in a day, 7 days in a week and 12 months in a year. But it never seems to be enough time to figure out who you are.


#78.  
One Drink is Never Just One Drink.


#79.  
People care about one another a lot more than they let on. 


#80.  In the end, it’s not about the awards you got, the money you made, the things you bought. It’s about the EXPERIENCES you had. The lives you touched. The smiles you shared. How you made someone feel. Whether you followed your heart and dreams. Live authentically.













Monday, 10 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True(Part 6).... #100Things


And the list continues...

Here goes..

100 Things I know to be true..

#51.  . The bad news is that time flies, the good news is that you're the pilot. @Natha_iyka

#52.   Do not compare your weaknesses to other people's strength. @Natha_iyka

#53.   I might have hurt your feelings but if you don't tell me I'll never know. @Natha_iyka

#54.  I was created for a purpose.

#55.  The world has not seen what great art can do.

#56.  We need more poetry and less prose, more art and less advertising.

#57.  You can make money without doing evil.... Google

#58.  I can repurpose everything I feel, experience and observe into my writing – and it’s cathartic.

#59.  Put on your own oxygen mask first.

#60.  Love anyway, Even when you don’t want to; especially when you don’t want to; even when it feels impossible.

Don't forget to send in yours too!  #100 Things @C_ronn   @iweanyawrites
Enjoy!
Saturday, 8 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True(Part 5).... #100Things


Here's numbers 41 to 50.... 100 Things I know to be true...
Thanks to a close friend of mine ;)...
Here goes..

#41.   worry is the misuse of imagination... @Natha_iyka

#42.   maths doesn't suck but I still prefer languages...@Natha_iyka

#43.   the world has enough celebrities it could use a few more saints...@Natha_iyka

#44.   when the going gets tough the tough gets going..@Natha_iyka

#45.   puppies are the cutest!...@Natha_iyka

#46.   I totally agree with -"the brain is a miracle"...@Natha_iyka

#47.   prayer fixes everything...@Natha_iyka

#48.   if u didn't watch Tom and Jerry or Lion King as a child then you didn't even have a childhood...@Natha_iyka

#49.   I love inspirational books...@Natha_iyka

#50.   I would do ANYTHING for my mother!...@Natha_iyka

Don't forget to send in yours too!  #100 Things @C_ronn   @iweanyawrites
Enjoy!
Friday, 7 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I Know to be True (Part 4)..... #100Things


*Drum roll*....
And the list continues...

100 Things I know to be True....

I know that;

#31.You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it, and when you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.

#32. Sunrise is a gift.

#33. The 1st to 3rd law of thermodynamics is true.

#34.  There are certain things in life that will always make me upset: Feeling used. Being lied to. Being blown off. Being interrupted. Broken promises. Watching my friends get hurt. 

#35.  Family and friendship are without question most important things in life and should be cherished deeply. I know there are a handful of people in this world who would take a bullet for me and vise versa. I know that there will always be people who love and support me.

#36.  We are never given more than we can handle.

#37.  There's always three sides to every story, the first person's, the second, and the truth.

#38.  The tongue has no bones, but it's strong enough to break a heart.


#39.  Holding a grudge is letting someone live rent-free in your head.


#40.  Grades don't measure intelligence and age doesn't define maturity
Thursday, 6 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True (Part 3)... #100Things


Here Goes...
100 Things I know to be true...

I know that;


#21.  Even the last bit can be shared.

#22.  I try my very best to keep my promises and I admire those who do.

#23.  Math is easy and Languages suck!

#24.  Love is a choice, and must be chosen each day by both individuals, especially on the days that you don’t feel like loving or being loved.

#25.  Every day, when I feel like pulling away, there's always someone to remind me to reach out instead.

#26.  Toothaches are among the most painful feelings in the world.

#27.  Albert Einstein once said," All of science is nothing more than the refinement of everyday thinking.”


#28.  Our society is moving faster than our ability to adapt to its changes.


#29.  One day, A woman would rule Nigeria.


#30.  Happy girls are the prettiest - @datKDgirl #100Things




Wednesday, 5 March 2014 0 comments

100 Things I know to be True (Part 2)... #100Things


So the list continues....
100 Things I Know To Be True....
Enjoy!

I know that;

#11.  Heaven is real, as well as hell.

#12.  Chimamanda Adichie was right when she said “A man who would be intimidated by me is exactly the kind of man I would have no interest in”

#13.  Relationships are 100:100 partnership, Not 50:50.

#14.  Guys cry.

#15.  Nigeria is a beautiful nation.

#16.  Looks aren’t everything, if you do not believe, ask Cameron Russell.

#17.  Harry Potter is a literature masterpiece of all time.

#18.  Poetry is definitely romantic.

#19.  Sometimes, all one needs, is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.


#20.  The best way to spell love is G-I-V-E.

Don't forget to write what you know to be true in the comment box or tweet using #100Things
(@iweanyawrites or @C_ronn ) and your truth would definitely help complete my list!

Sunday, 12 January 2014 0 comments

When Love Arrives...

My obsession for Spoken Word seems to spark some sort of inspiration in me. This particular poem was inspired by Sarah Kay ( My Favourite Spoken Word Poet) and Phil Kaye's very own "When Love Arrives". Watch them perform it live here
This poem, for some reason, strikes me hard, some parts, fiction, some parts, facts some parts, well, mere fantasy. Hope you enjoy!!

In primary school, love was our colouring books, pens and pencils. We'd look at each of them each day and share with them our imaginations.

Come junior high school, love was that drop-dead gorgeous guy in our favourite sitcom, who often entered the class in slo-motion and drove a Porsche to a high school

In senior high school, love was the cutest boy with curly hair and mad dance skills in our 'brother' school who had nose-diving grades that we didn't care about.

Strangely, this love felt far...
I searched my hostels,( and well in an all girls' school ), love wasn't there.
I often hustled to usher every social event that included our 'brother' schools, so that I could flash a smile at some dude whose stare lasted for more than 7 seconds. (frankly, 3 seconds.) (Continue Reading.....)
Tuesday, 5 November 2013 0 comments

How Not To Fall In Love With Your Best Friend...


Sequel to Having a Guy as a Best Friend, Its Pros and Cons ,The  'Love? Maybe? Pro/Con??' can be a big decision to make. However, Is it possible to have a best friend of the opposite sex and not be romantically involved with them? The answer is YES!. Stereotypically  we may think if a guy and a girl spend time together more than they do with their other friends, then something more than just the usual friendship is going on between them. But in a world of so much open-mindedness and equitability, there are other choices.
Here are some tips that I find useful since my best friend is also a guy *blushes*. He gives me all the reasons to fall in love with him, since he is so the ideal type, but I try my best to always have my counter strikes. I choose not to; I want not to.
1. START YOUR FRIENDSHIP WITH THE END IN MIND. It is important that you, on the very onset of your friendship, set your mind that your best friend will always be your best friend, nothing more, nothing less. The 'mind over matter' rule could still apply. Make a personal rule that it is forbidden to entertain any thoughts regarding your best friend being your ideal partner, or else, you will always hold on to that mental note and eventually, label him as an ideal partner not as a best friend. Whenever your mind accidentally crosses that line, shake it off as soon as you can.
2. CHOOSE NOT BE ATTRACTED. It is normal and sometimes inevitable to be attracted to your best friend. But of course, you have become the best of friends because you have seen qualities in each other that you find fascinating or plainly, attractive. So, don't feel so bad or sheepish whenever you feel attracted but learn to go back to reality. Whenever you see his best side, humorously divert your attention to his worst side. It helps. From being the good looking, almost perfect best friend to his eccentricity of singing like a frog, or farting like a pro, if there is such.
3. VERBALIZE HOW YOU SEE HIM AS YOUR BROTHER (OR A SISTER IF YOU'RE A GUY!). This is again for your own sake. It is to season your mind that there is a red line between liking him and loving him like your sibling. Call him brother all the time (Even if he hates it sooo much). Associate him with your real brother, if you have one. Having a male best friend is so special and gratifying, because you could always ask him a male's point of view regarding anything, for free. It is expedient to run to him for an advice regarding your personal issues, whether this is regarding your relationship with other people, or sometimes, economic issues, to draw the line that he is, indeed, your brother who could help you, even in the most non-romantic ways.
4. BE EMBARRASSED WITH THE POSSIBILITY. I suggest that you keep the cattiness, at least, just to not fall for your best friend. Just imagine how he could totally turn away from you, 360 degrees, if he finds out you are engrossing yourself with imaginations of things friends are not supposed to do. Well, technically, I would not know how on earth will he find out that he is involved in your phantasm, but just imagine how awkward would that make him feel that at some point, you have envisioned him being idealistically linked to you, in not so wholesome manner. Imagine how that would make you feel, too!
5. FINALLY, CHOOSE TO LOVE HIM AS YOUR BEST FRIEND. Personally, I could give my life for my best friend. I could give anything for him. There were moments when I would actually ponder if I was attracted to him in some other ways or if it was more of being overwhelmed that I actually have a man in my life who cares and loves me like his own blood sister, even if I am not his family. That is just way too much of a deluge sometimes. A man who is so good to you and so believes in you like no other men do. Minus all the sexual thoughts and intentions. That is, let me say it again, overwhelming, nowadays.
I was inspired to write this because honestly, I have been bothered by my having a guy best friend. Not really bothered by the relationship itself but how people around us see it. He would tell me how his guys asked him if he ever courted me, or how his friends would sometimes throw wisecracks at him regarding me as his just friend, or how my brothers would tease me every time I mention his name. I chose to be his best friend and that's what forever I will be( I hope so!). Again, it is a decision, not merely an emotion. The fact is, he is everything, well almost everything, that I would like my eternal companion to be- brainy, expressive, outspoken, artistic, hilarious and pompous, in a good way...but he is my best friend. Once again, I am able to find a very solid friendship founded on trust, confidence and love and I do not want to, even if this is just speaking theoretically, to ruin this one precious, oh-so-good-thing that I have with him, just because of my dopey and mindless self-professed feelings. Never. I know in my heart that both our intentions towards each other are always, chaste and objective. I will never ever fall in love with my best friend.
Warning!; Some expressions are over-exaggerated, and the use of the word "never" holds a lot of uncertainties  and even as sweet as our friendship sounds, we are still cats and dogs!.. Enjoy reading!
Monday, 14 January 2013 0 comments

THE AWESOMENESS OF WOMEN

Woman

I know, I Know, I like Women too much; but I just really marvel at this wonderful beings.....

You see the grace in the eyes of a pregnant woman, the virtue in her speech..
You see their exceptional ability to be creative.
You feel the Love in her heart and the warmth it emanates..
You see the Rivers of Living Water flowing from her belly..

Pardon my love for Women its just that I have a new found respect for them

God was very thoughtful when he created the Woman...  


 
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